The life is mortal and no one can get rid of this universal truth. Hence, everything needs to happen in the life at the right time. Be it marriage or be it professional career, it is extremely important that we pay utmost attention to complete everything with far less time. The Delay in marriage can be a cause of many issues in life.
However much we may work hard, the destiny has a different story for us. It is obvious that the fate is not at our disposal.
The marriage is the part and partial of our life. Hence, the timely marriage can make us not only happy but also it becomes easy to educate and settle our kids.
Astrological reasons for delay in marriage
As we know marriage is an important and sublime event in our life, it is always better to tie the knot at the right time. Sometimes, we put our effort heart and soul. However, the marriage remains a distant dream
Both boys and girls become frustrated since marriage is not taking place despite since effort. In fact, what are astrological reasons for the delay in marriage?
The planets in the birth chart are the sole cause of late marriage. Every time we propose, but God disposes.
Now, I would like focus on the planetary reasons of delay in marriage. I have explained 6 reasons of getting delayed in marriage.
- The marriage gets delayed when the 7th lord or marriage lord is retrograded and the Mars is posited in the 8th house.
- There will be late marriage if the 7th lord is weak and posited in the 6th or 8th house in the birth chart.
- Both 7th lord and Saturn becomes akarak and conjoined together, it becomes the cause of delayed marriage.
- The marriage becomes extremely delay when there is mutual aspect of Saturn and Venus in the birth chart and moon remains in the 8th or 12th
- The native gets marriage in old age when the planet Saturn and Venus is posited in the ascendant and the Mars is placed in the 7th
- When the Moon is conjoined with Rahu in the 7th house and the 7th lord is debilitated, then there will be ample of obstacles and late in marriage.
Astrological reasons for early marriage
Everyone is eager to get married as early as possible. However, in the today’s scenario of professional life, it has been very difficult for the people to get married at a very youthful time.
Let’s discuss if you are lucky enough to get married at a tender age.
- You can tie the knot at an early age if the lord of ascendant and lord of marriage are auspicious and mutual friend.
- You will get married in the beginning of the youth, if the powerful 7th lord is posited in the 2nd house and getting aspect of ascendant lord and 9th
- You will also tie the nuptial knot at a tender age, if the auspicious Moon is posited in the 7th house and getting aspect of auspicious planets such as Jupiter, Venus and Mercury.
Planets that keep unmarried lifelong – No Marriage in astrology
The marriage is a lifelong journey that survives on love and trust. Almost all of us are eager to get married sooner or later. Some get married sooner and some tie the knot very late in life.
It is seen some rarest case that both boy and girl remains unmarried throughout life. It is really very painful to remain unmarried lifelong as marriage is a nature’s gift. The emotional relationship and coital affair is both mental and biological necessity.
However, sometimes the cruel hand of destiny does not spare you. The unmarried state becomes a curse. The life remains painful till the last breath.
Let’s explain if you have such planetary combinations in your birth chart.
- If the planet Mercury and Venus are conjoined together in a retrograde or combust condition in the natal chart, then you are not likely to get married throughout life.
- You will remain unmarried till the end of your life if the planet Saturn and Mars conjoined together in the 7th house and the debilitated Moon placed in the 7th house from Venus.
- Your marriage will be a distant dream if the planet Rahu is posited in the 7th house and the lord of 7th house becomes retrograded and combust and conjoined with evil Mars and Saturn.
Arranged marriage or love marriage
There has been a lot of transformation in the Indian matrimonial affairs during last two decades. The Indian marriage system had been prevailing conservatively. However, the rapid globalization and urbanization and presence of western culture have changed the mindset of not only young boys and girls but also parents.
Most of the parents are open to give independence to their kids with regard to marriage. However, the marriage is always made in heaven.
However much you may try, you are destined with either a bad marriage or good marriage. In today’s scenario most of young people are eager to take their own decision for tying the knot.
Let’s discuss as to whether you will have love or arranged marriage.
- The lord of 7th house indicates marriage and the lord of 5th house indicates love. If the lord of 7th is conjoined together with 5th house then you will have love marriage.
- If the lord of the 7th house is afflicted by malefic planets like Saturn, Sun, Rahu, Ketu and Mars the love marriage will not be easy. There will be a lot of relationship issues between you and your soulmate before marriage.
- If the lord of 5th and 7th is conjoined together and has been afflicted by malefic planets then the couple will elope or run away.
- If the lord of marriage is conjoined with Saturn, Rahu and Ketu, then you are likely to have inter-caste marriage or inter-religious companionship.
- If both the lord of 5th house and 7th house conjoins together and getting aspect of auspicious planet then you will have love cum arranged marriage.
- If the lord of 7th house is posited in an auspicious house and the 7th house is aspected by auspicious Jupiter and Venus, then you will have arranged and traditional marriage. Additionally, the planet Jupiter must be powerful and without affliction by evil planets in a female horoscope.
- The planet Venus must be free from any affliction in the boy’s horoscope to have arranged marriage.
Extra marital affair and marriage in Vedic astrology
The today’s world is highly faster than we think. The lifestyle have been changed quite a lot during last couple of years in the advent of not only high-end movies and TV serials but also internet enabled smartphones.
The people find their love on the go. The Facebook, Twitter, Google search, LinkedIn and offices that are flooded with young people are the places where love and romance can happen almost instantly.
The love and romance has been taking place virtually everywhere.
Almost 10% of my clients do ask about extramarital affairs. In the today’s scenario not only the boys have been developing extramarital affairs but also the girls.
Let’s discuss what planetary position in the birth chart compels you to have extramarital affair.
- The 7th house is solely responsible for any kind of marriage be it arranged marriage, love marriage or extramarital affairs. If the lord of 7th house is not free from affliction, then extramarital affair is likely to happen.
- The numbers of planets that conjoin with the lord of 7th house is an indication of extramarital affair.
- If more than one planet placed in the 7th house then extramarital affair is indicated.
- If planet Venus is afflicted and conjoins with more than one planet, then you are likely to have love affair outside of the marriage.
- When the planet Jupiter is afflicted, 4th house and 4th lord is afflicted and the 7th lord and 7th house is conjoined with more than one planet, the woman will have extramarital affair.
Divorce or separation in astrology
The woman empowerment might be one of the causes of divorce and separation these days. The reign of male dominated world has been a story of bygone days.
During last couple of years the womenfolk have been developing by leaps and bounds. They have been excelling not only in the field of education but also job, business, profession and career etc.
However, there have been spates of divorce, separation and marital discord due to various reasons.
In fact, it is very imperative to know the reasons for the divorce or separation in astrology and its remedial measures. Many people have been coming in contact with me for their marriage life prediction these days due to various interpersonal issues.
Let’s discuss, what is the cause of marital discord, divorce or judicial separation?
The 7th house in the birth chart rules marriage, love and biological affair of the human being. If the lord of 7th house is afflicted by malefic planets such as Saturn, Mars, Ketu and Rahu , then there will be separation.
If there is severe Mangal Dosha in the birth chart and the 7th house and its lord is afflicted there will be divorce.
If the planet Venus in the birth chart of a male native is conjoined with malefic planets and gets combusted then there will separation between husband and wife.
When the planet Jupiter is conjoined with malefic planets in the female chart, then there will be loveless marriage and ultimately divorce.
If the planet Venus in the male chart and Jupiter in the female chart debilitated and afflicted by Saturn, Ketu, Rahu, Mars and Sun then there will be divorce according to astrology.
If the 7th lord is debilitated and posited in the 6th house, 8th house and 12th house and also afflicted by evil planets, then there will be divorce.
Death of life partner according to the horoscope
No one wishes to remain single. However, the destiny sometimes becomes so harsh that it becomes beyond endurance.
Sometime the untimely death of the life partner leaves indelible spot in the heart. The death of the life partner is such a sorrow that even it should not happen to our enemy.
The planetary combination in the astrology is one of the main causes to become widow. Let’s find, what are the planetary combinations in the astrology that leaves you alone by killing your soulmate untimely.
- If the 7th house is severely afflicted by Mars, Saturn, Rahu, Ketu and Sun then there will be premature death of the life partner.
- If the Venus is debilitated and combusted by Sun in the birth chart then the life partner will die within a short span of marriage.
- If the 7th lord and Jupiter is highly afflicted in the horoscope of a female chart, then there will be death of the husband.
Why horoscope compatibility is required for marriage
Since there are many issues pertaining to marriage has been taking place, it is better to prevent better than cure. Hence, the first step is to make a match making. The matchmaking can be done both in numerology and Vedic astrology.
Today, there are many online Kundli matching software available that you can avail for free. Simply you need the date of birth, time of birth and place of birth of both the partners.
These online astrological tools on horoscope matching for marriage can easily tell if you have Nadi Dosh, Bhakut Dosh, Mangal Dosha in the Kundli and the complete Ashtakut matching.
Although horoscope matching will not dispel the negative influence of the planets on marriage, it will definitely minimize or neutralize the evil impact of the planets on matrimonial happiness.
The marriage matching can be done not only according to Vedic astrology but also it can be done through numerology.
The number compatibility can be a great help to neutralized marital discord. Hence, it is very imperative to find a wise numerologist to make a marriage matching and numerological prediction for marriage.
Astrological remedies for late marriage and love affair
It might be the case of delayed marriage or problem pertaining to love and marriage, it is always better to prevent beforehand.
There are ample of remedial measures in Vedic astrology for love and marriage that the astrologer can prescribe. Hence, you should approach an astrologer first to ensure if you have the evil planets that have been the cause of late marriage.
These astrological remedies can help you to get married sooner and the problems can be minimized if you follow astrological remedies for marriage problem heart and soul. Here is the list of remedial measures in astrology that you can practice.
- Read Aditya Hriday Stotram daily. It is applicable for both the male and female.
- Read Sundarakand if you have Mangal Dosh in the Kundli.
- In a female horoscope, the girl should use Yellow Sapphire to get rid of marriage problem. In a male horoscope, the boy should use Diamond to get married easily. However, it is very important to find the qualified astrologer to assess your birth chart for marriage life prediction.
- You can use Red Coral if you have Mangal Dosh.
- The girl should chant Katyayani Devi Mantra everyday.
- The boy should chant Patni Prapti Mantra from Saptasati Chandi.
- The girl should visit the Lord Shiva temple and offer water on the Shivling for 16 consecutive Monday. The same remedy can also be followed by a boy.
- You should also get your Vastu Dosh corrected at home.
Conclusion
Marriage is an important event in life. The matrimonial bonding is not only a relationship but also a biological necessity. Hence, it is extremely important to look before you leap. The consultation for the marriage with an astrologer should not only start with assessing the birth chart or marriage time and life prediction but also the remedial measures for all sorts of problem by a savant of astrology.
Akshay says
I have 7th lord in 8th house saturn , for cancer ascendent. What will be the effects.
When will i get marry at early age or late.
Manoranjan Prusty says
Hi Akshya,
Generally, the 7th lord in the 8th house is not good. However, I need your date of birth, time of birth and place of birth so as to study in details.